But moving on, I have sort of a question. Do women ever drop grudges? Do they ever forget? I have a specific example. Perhaps three days ago I filled out a myspace bulletin that asked who I last kissed. I said "Vanessa on the cheek" which was, of course, a greeting. The next morning I wake up to find Jen has sent me a message, pointing out a couple of my answers and commenting on them. For the question about kissing I get this response: "What's up with this??? No really...I'm not thrilled about this fact at all....(pause to think, I'm hoping this was in greeting and not like a kiss on the cheek you gave Ping) If it was like Ping, how would you like it if I kissed one of my guy friends on the cheek the way you did!) You better remedy my confidence level about your actions by affirming me somehow!" Granted there could have been some hyperbole in her response but I sensed some definite anger and jealousy in her response. The thing that gets me though is that she mentions Ping. I kissed Ping two times, on the cheek, before Jen and I got together. Do women ever forget about this stuff? I could maybe understand it if I had kissed Ping when Jen and I were already involved, but this is just dumb. All that said, I like it when she gets jealous.